Okay, you’re searching for a girl. You’re on a quest to find a girlfriend. Fear not! Here’s a treasure map.
Confidence is essential. Confidence is your secret weapon. Believe in yourself. You don’t have to be Brad Pitt. Smiling, walking tall, and making eye contact is important. Remember the old proverb? Fake it ’til you make. Even if your hands are shaking, pretend to be in control. Read more now on Impressing a woman.
Let’s move on to appearance. Here, you don’t have to wear designer clothes or have six-pack abs. You only need to be clean and well groomed. Shower regularly, apply deodorant to your skin, and dress in a nice way. Like polishing a precious diamond, you’re already worth something; all you need to do is shine more.
Next up: conversation skills. Imagine yourself at a cocktail party with your friends, rather than a job interview with Love Inc. Ask open-ended and honest questions, then listen carefully to her responses. Show her that you’re interested in what they say, but don’t turn it into a questioning session.
Humor can be a very powerful weapon in your arsenal. Who doesn’t like to laugh! You can share funny jokes or stories, but don’t go too far.
Think parties, clubs, and even casual gatherings of friends. Avoid being that guy who stands in the corner and drinks all night. Get out there! Talk to someone you like if you happen to see them.
Online dating is also a great way to meet people. It’s a lot like fishing using dynamite when compared to the traditional methods. Select good photos, but avoid bathroom selfies. Create a profile that shows off your personality and isn’t boastful.
Body language is the unspoken star of attraction games. When talking, lean slightly in her direction but keep your personal space. By mirroring her movements subtly you can show that you are interested.
Now comes the tricky bit: reading signals. If she laughs when you joke (even if it’s bad), keeps eye contact with you longer than usual, or touches you lightly without any reason–that is green light territory!
Even with the best of intentions, rejection can happen. That’s okay! Every ‘no” brings you closer to a ‘yes’. You can learn from your mistakes instead of dwelling solely on them.
You can also keep some cards in your chest at first to create intrigue and gradually reveal the layers as you go.
You should also consider common interests to build solid relationships. This can include sports, music, movies or books.
The key to finding a girlfriend is to be patient. Remember that Rome wasn’t made in a day, and neither are great relationships. They take time.
It’s time to go! With your knowledge, you are ready to set off on the quest of true love. Fortune favors those who take bold steps. Happy hunting matey.